Speaking Success International

I am going to start the year myth busting about speaking in public. This is for experienced and beginner speakers alike.

Coaches and service providers just don’t understand how easy it is to talk to a group of people… I am asked everyday if it is possible to become a speaker, to get paid, to find audiences, to get bookings… and so on. Let me bust some myths for you that you yourself might be having that could be holding you back unnecessarily from speaking in public.

Contrary to popular belief, (maybe yours?) it is possible to speak publicly and be authentic, have a smooth, successful, enjoyable experience. For that to happen, though, you may need to debunk a few of these common myths about public speaking.

1. Myth #1 You must memorize your speech. Yes, practice your speech repeatedly, but it’s more effective to memorize concepts than words. You don’t have to memorize the entire thing. It is best to memorize your opening and your close and use the note system that works best for you. There are several choices for effective note systems.

2. Myth #2. Your Introductions aren’t that important. Because they prepare the audience for your message, introductions should be carefully written, Moreover, your intro should always be written by you, it has a job to do, and done right will create excitement in the audience for your entrance.

3. Myth #3. A powerful speaker uses a lectern. No. Ditch this barrier between you and your audience. The lecturn police says ,”Step away from the lecturn” and connect!

4. Myth #4. It’s best to stand in place and minimize movement. Not for the whole talk. Doing so, you appear stiff, not calm. You use your stillness and movement strategically. We actually design your movements so you know when, where, why and how you will move. Purposeful, authentic animation increases the audience’s energy and yours too!

5. Myth #5. Everyone wants to hear your message. Not always.. Not everyone may be there by choice. So to keep everyone’s attention, keep your information meaningful and your style interesting. I specialize in helping speakers design for the three different ways adults listen , so you never leave anyone out.

6. Myth #6 Good speakers don’t get nervous. Everyone LOL! The best speakers still get nervous! Some nervousness is good, it keeps you on your toes, energized.

7. Myth #7 You’re speaking to an audience. No. You speak to individuals one at a time, no matter how many are in the seats. The secret to this is in how you make your eye contact.

8. Myth #8 Your speech has to be perfect. Actually, your speech is not about you. It’s about your audience. Keep your focus on what they need. Be of service, have good content, think how much your information will help them. Be real, present, and authentic they forgive your personal imperfections and will love you for helping provide a solution they need.

9. Myth #9 The faciltity has the equipment you need or can work with what you bring. Don’t assume anything! Check equipment, bring back-up materials, prepare for the unexpected. Big topic, I will write more on the blog…

10 Myth #10 No one would pay you to speak. If you can help people make money, solve a problem, increase attendance, enrich lives-or when you’re just gooood- they will pay!

Make 2009 the year you step out and share the meaning and solutions you offer with your target audiences. Myth #11? It takes a long time to get started speaking. Anyone who has a business or a practice today can and should be out speaking to groups from Day One. I have seen the dramatic success speaking quickly brings to businesses and want you to have it too.

There just is no better, faster, easier and rewarding way to grow your business, your influence and your profits this year. You can do it! I guarantee it. I provide the coaching to show you how with my products and one to one premium coaching programs.